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This singular guide presents the straightforward facts on affairs, as well as advice to affairees and spouses on how to cope with them.

Since 60% of marriages are affected by affairs, you should know the facts:

• Women under 30 are as likely as men to have an affair.
• Love affairs are different from sex affairs.
• Most affairs last between and three years, but the consequences can last a lifetime.
• Fewer than 10% of affairees divorce their spouses then marry their lover.
• Over 75% of those who do divorce and marry their lover divorce again.
• Nearly 80% of those who divorce during an affair are sorry later.
• Most marriages survive affairs. If you want to stay married, you can.
• Prevention works. You can -- and should -- affair-proof your marriage right now."